Warning:
The material on these pages and on the
linked sites deals with abuse issues,
and may be quite graphic.

Dedicated to all Survivors,
and the great people
who offer their support and understanding.
A special dedication to, and in loving
memory of those who never had the
chance to find the happiness they
deserved. We Love you, and will always
remember you.

Remember and respect your Inner Child.
Neither of you have anything to be ashamed of.

IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT!

A very special Thank You! to all who have helped, in so very many ways, and especially to all of the people who have visited here and given me a reason to (hopefully) keep improving these pages.

I have found so many great people on the internet, and it's my only source of contact with other Survivors. But it has had a far greater impact on my life than I ever would have believed. And I can honestly say that I've never met a greater, more caring bunch of people as those who have some idea of what I went through. I just never dreamed that there were so many! May there come a day when there will be no abuse victims, and therefore no Survivors.

I also wanted to say that I care about each and every one of you, and no matter how you feel about yourself, please believe me,

YOU ARE WORTH IT!

You are all wonderful people, and you deserve happiness and peace in your lives.

My greatest wish is that we will all find that happiness, and truly KNOW that we are kind, caring people who were victimized by evil beyond our control.

God bless you all.

Table of Contents

• My Newest Ramblings on Surviving Abuse
  
  
• A letter to my abusers
  
  
• Abuse Statistics
  
  
• Feelings, Spirituality, Poems, etc.
  
  
• Memorial Sites - Please Remember
  
  
• Recovered Memory Links Debunking the FMSF Molester Safehaven
  
  
• Schools, Spanking and Other Socially Acceptable Forms of Child Abuse
  
  
• Stories of Survival
  
  
• Survivors' Healing Sites
  
  
• Survivor Support! Online support, finding a counselor, crisis lines.
  
  
• United Survivors Preventing Abuse My abuse prevention pages
  
  
• Valuable Healing and Information Resources
  
  

Statistics

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• RAPE, ABUSE AND INCEST NATIONAL NETWORK (R.A.I.N.N.) Facts and statistics
  

Stories of Survival

• Ryan's Story (More Legal Bungling)
  
• Debbie's Story
  
• My Story
  
• More of my Story Warning: Contains strong language, and may not be suitable for all readers.
  

Feelings, Spirituality, etc.

• Why? Poem to a victim
  
• She Sits All Alone A beautiful poem we can all relate to.
  
• So Afraid
  
• Making A Man One of my favorite poems.
  
• Angels A wonderful site, including Survivor pages and links. Unique.
  

Valuable Resources for Abuse Survivors

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• Sexual Assault Information Page
  
• The innocence of a child can never be replaced.
  The Site for all aspects of abuse.
  
• Song "I Belong to Me" by Rebecca Mahoney (SOC-UM Link) Great reminder for kids. (Of all ages!)
  
• Eating Disorders Resources - The Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders A Wonderful Site... Please don't pass it up!
  
• Jette's Survivor's Links Links to some great sites!
  

Recovered Memory Sites

• Recovered Memory Project
  
• The Validity of Recovered Memory: Decision of a US District Court
  

"I was a victim of sexual assault.
 Now I am a SURVIVOR,
 And I will not be silent another
 day, hour or minute
 To protect those
 who deserve no protection."

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